Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girls Camp







I was scheduled to go to girls camp the last week in July. It was a little hard to think about leaving for another week when I would only have one week at home after being gone for three weeks on my last trip to Utah. My nice friends in Young Womens told me I could just come for Thursday and Friday. I decided to go up on Wednesday night and leave Friday morning and go up to Utah again. My dad had six seizures in seven days and it is very hard to stay away when things are so hard for my parents.

A lady from another ward, Tammy Wood, asked if she could ride with me to camp. We had visited a few times on the phone before and she knew I would be leaving Friday to go visit my dad who was sick. It turned out to be such a blessing to have her come with me. She was an RN and her specialty was helping with breathing and airway. I was able to talk to her about my dads condition and about the seizures and how he feels he can't breathe while the seizures are going on. She showed me a simple thing that we could do by moving his jaw in order to help him get more air. She also brought me a book called "Final Gifts" a book written by hospice nurses to help those who are losing a loved one to death understand the dying process better. I felt very grateful for the hours we spent talking on the ride to camp.

Camp was a lot of fun this year. It was great to be with Megan a few days, I hadn't seen her much this summer. I brought my air mattress and we slept in the back of the van together. It was beautiful up in Kolob. Our stake camp was about an hour and a half drive past Hurricane, Utah. It is a beautiful camp and was even more beautiful than the last time I was there. It had a few new features, flush toilets and showers. I hate camping when I can't shower or use a real toilet.

The skit night was one of the best I had ever been to. We laughed so hard. I enjoyed being with the girls and the other leaders. One of the highlights of camp was that our ward camp leader brought a cardboard cut out of our bishop (also my boss) to camp at the beginning of the week. Bishop didn't arrive to camp until Friday, but all week he attended all the events in his cardboard cutout form. Each day the girls dressed him up in different accessories. Which included "Clark Kent" glasses, headbands, super hero chest emblems and capes. They held his hands and walked him to roll call and flag ceremony every morning. They even sat over in the priesthood session with him so he could be with the "brethren" it was one of the funniest things I have seen. They gave him naps on their cots in the afternoon when he needed a rest. They took good care of "Bish" as they called him. By the time our bishop arrived in person, he was a celebrity with the stake.

I was going to leave early Friday morning to head up to Bountiful. I said goodbye to everyone the night before so I wouldn't wake anyone in camp. At 5:15 a.m my alarm went off, I could hear a hissing sound in the van and realized that when I sat up, my air mattress dispensed a whole can of mousse. It was a huge mess, all over the floor, the air mattress, my bag of clothes. I opened the van door to put the bag outside and forgot the alarm was set. So yes, I set off my car alarm as I was quietly trying to get ready and sneak out of camp. I felt horrible. It only managed to sound off 2 or 3 very long, very loud horn honks before I found the keys and shut it off. Megan was a little put out about the whole incident. I said goodbye to her and headed out. It took me another 5 hours to get to Bountiful so I wasn't as close as I thought I was. I didn't tell anyone I was coming and so they were surprised. It was a very short visit but always good to be with my family.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

****The 4th of JULY****

















Aaron and I had a very special fourth of July celebration with my family. The only down side was that Todd, Ariel and Megan weren't with us. A few days before the fourth...my dad said that maybe we should go see the big firework show in Logan. I know he was remembering the fun times we had many years ago at the USU stadium. I told my mom what he had said. Obviously my dad is very weak right now and thinking about driving him to Logan and getting him into a large stadium was out of the question. My mom suggested that we go up to the golf course in North Salt Lake, we had done that in previous years. He said he wanted to go. Early in the day my mom drove a car to the golf course and parked it on the street next to where we would sit, so my dad wouldn't have to walk very far after the show. She found an area that had the smallest hill to climb and was as flat as possible. She put blankets out to save our space, which can only be done in Utah.

A lot of the family came over to my parents and we had dinner together. Jon was in charge of the firework show out front. The kids loved that. Stephen provided an endless supply of pop-its, the kids were very excited about that. We had a great time visiting and being together. My dad got a new fire bowl for the back yard recently and it came with an extra bowl for drinks. He wanted us to take that up with us and fill it with ice so people could have cold drinks.

It was a big effort to get my dad to the firework show. It has been almost three weeks since he has eaten any food. He was very sick and very weak. We had to take camp cushions and lots of blankets to make a bed for him to lay down on. My brothers got him out of the car and carefully got him to where we would sit. They helped him lay down onto the bed my mom had made. We covered him with blankets. The kids had fun eating treats and playing with their glow necklaces while we waited for the show to start.

The show was a spectacular one. We lay on our backs with giant fireworks exploding right over our heads. It was beautiful. Lily thought she might even be able to catch a few of them. My dad seemed like he was sleeping through most of it, but I know he was grateful to be there. When the show was over we gathered up all of our things and my brothers carefully lifted my dad up off the ground and helped him back to the car. Before the rest of us headed to our cars, which were parked a distance away, we hugged each other and shed some tears...we knew it would be the last firework show he would ever see.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Some pictures from Megan...

Megan now has a better camera than I do. I have enjoyed seeing the pictures that she takes...here are some of her most recent ones.





Wild life appreciation trip - June 2010